{"id":5934,"date":"2021-07-13T15:59:07","date_gmt":"2021-07-13T06:59:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/realtokyo.co.jp\/_sys2024\/en\/?p=5934"},"modified":"2021-07-13T16:00:49","modified_gmt":"2021-07-13T07:00:49","slug":"all-the-sex-ive-ever-had","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/realtokyo.co.jp\/en\/performance\/all-the-sex-ive-ever-had\/","title":{"rendered":"True Colors Festival \u201cAll the Sex I\u2019ve Ever Had\u201d
Darren O\u2019Donnell of Mammalian Diving Reflex
2021.4.8 – 11<\/small>
Spiral Hall<\/small>"},"content":{"rendered":"

Photo: Ryohei Tomita<\/p>\n

\u201cAll the Sex I\u2019ve Ever Had\u201d is a work by the Canada-based Darren O\u2019Donnell and his theater company Mammalian Diving Reflex, whose socially engaged art goes under the moniker \u201cSocial Acupuncture.\u201d \u201cAll the Sex,\u201d which has been performed the world over, consists of monologues by senior citizens talking earnestly about their personal experiences with sex, and has struck a chord with many in a time when the circumstances of sexuality have grown increasingly complex and multifaceted, a lifespan of 100 years is no longer an extreme rarity, and the meanings of physical age and quality of life for us alive today have changed.<\/p>\n

\u201cWould you like to talk about sex?\u201d That was the question posed when Mammalian looked for potential performance participants, all of whom had to be aged 60 or over. In February 2020, the <\/span>company then held a month\u2019s worth of interviews and workshops with five seniors who would share their stories. A script was produced on the basis of discussion premised on the participants\u2019 personal histories, particularly their sexual experiences, and centered on sexuality and aging. When the staff, speakers, and everyone else involved with the Japan edition first got together, they started out with a workshop where all participants were tasked with sharing their first, last, best, and worst sexual experiences. The sharing of personal secrets, like on the evening of a school trip, must have engendered a special sense of unity among those who were there.<\/p>\n

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Photo: Ryohei Tomita<\/p>\n

The show was initially planned for March 2020 but had to be postponed to April 2021 due to the coronavirus pandemic, which also affected rehearsals. <\/span>Lined up on stage and spurred on by an easygoing MC, a skillful interpreter, young members of the staff, and the encouragement of O\u2019Donnell\u2019s team, who joined in remotely, the participants began telling their personal stories in their own words. Starting out in 1946, when the oldest speaker was born, they proceeded chronologically from childhood to the present, sharing things they had experienced. Their stories were accompanied by popular songs from the decades in question, and at one point a disco ball was even brought in to illuminate the stage, with the participants all getting up to dance cheerfully.<\/p>\n

The dialogue on sexual experiences also extended to involve the audience. Among those who raised their hand in response to questions like \u201cHave you ever used an object to masturbate?\u201d or \u201cHave you ever had a sex in a love hotel?\u201d, one audience member per query was subjected to intense\u00a0\u2013 but entirely voluntary \u2013 <\/span> questioning by O\u2019Donnell\u2019s crew via iPad. As people raised their hands and those asked to elaborate shared their sexual experiences\u00a0<\/span>without inhibition, the atmosphere in the room gradually became steamier and steamier. This allowed onlookers initially left somewhat perplexed and tense by the speakers\u2019 intensity to get involved personally.<\/p>\n

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Photo: Ryohei Tomita<\/p>\n

The five speakers were all highly diverse residents of\u00a0<\/span>country with \u201cone of the world\u2019s lowest levels of gender awareness.\u201d Their backgrounds were truly diverse. One spoke of their sexual awakening in childhood and how their bodily desires were unleashed by an early experience at a cruising ground. Another had experienced divorce and had experienced divorce and left their job to care for an elderly parent before landing in the slum in search of free expression. There was also a transgender person who had married and raised children, but after retiring and experiencing the earthquake and tsunami of March 2011 had summoned the courage to undergo sex reassignment surgery. One participant, born with a disability, had parlayed their intelligence and assertiveness into an international career.\u00a0One speaker recounted a variety of sexual experiences that had taken place during the male-dominated postwar era of rapid economic growth.<\/p>\n

At the start of \u201cAll the Sex,\u201d all members of the audience and crew were asked to stand up and swear never to speak of what they had heard or seen during the show. Anyone reporting on or reviewing the event also had to pledge to respect privacy concerns and refrain from including script extracts. For that reason, I cannot go into detail on the participants or their stories, but all of them have lived remarkable lives to which the descriptions above cannot possibly do justice. No class in modern history teaches real life stories \u2013 not those in movies or TV shows \u2013 so full of stunning highs and woeful lows, as these seemingly ordinary senior citizens have experienced. The spirit shown by the participants by agreeing to reveal their own vulnerability and suffering in front of others through straight talk is worthy of so much respect.<\/p>\n

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Photo: Ryohei Tomita<\/p>\n

Several aspects of the performance drove home how much attention had been paid to preserving the participants\u2019 dignity throughout. First, the way the five speakers told their stories was strictly matter-of-fact, interspersed with jokes and self-deprecating commentary that elicited laughs from the audience. The script was almost completely stripped of personal emotion and opinion, which must have figured quite extensively during the creation process. Having the creative side and the audience share the same facts allowed for a \u201cflat\u201d and open space free from ideology and prejudice. The stories, spared the polarizing prism of interpretation \u00ad\u2013 which is itself in constant flux \u2013 were free of sneers, resentment, fantasies, braggadocio. What remained was the fact of lives far from smooth, at times desperate, but confidently lived, appearing in front of us almost like rising columns of steam.<\/p>\n

Another notable point was how the work was constructed to first take the audience back into a time it had not experienced, return to the present along a timeline, and finally predict the future. As O\u2019Donnell writes on the official website, the 65-and-over participants are of the flower-child generation, who were born in the 1940s and \u201950s and came of age in the \u201960s. They reached adulthood and had their sexual awakenings during a revolutionary age, when values and preconceived notions of all kinds were shaken up and democracy movements and counter culture flourished the world over, an intense age when Japan emerged from the disorder of the early postwar years and laid the seeds of its economic miracle. The fragments of life shared by the participants imparted the immense energy with which their generation had dived head first into both life and sexuality. The exciting things experienced by these people, now well into their autumn years, and the events that unbeknownst to others had hurt them were illuminated by sharing these happenings with the onlookers and allowing them too to imagine the participants\u2019 journeys from birth to present.<\/p>\n

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Photo: Ryohei Tomita<\/p>\n

While \u201cAll the Sex\u201d is superfluously about sex \u2013 a theme everyone has some sort of personal experience with \u2013 on a deeper level it is an attempt to break open, from the inside, historical changes experienced by people alive today and these people\u2019s outlook on life. Opening oneself up to others is not easy, nor is engaging deeply with someone else\u2019s life. Mammalian\u2019s unique methodology of socially engaged art, known as \u201cSocial Acupuncture,\u201d takes on that delicate sphere. Acupuncture needles, only millimeters in length, can feel like they penetrate unbelievably deep into the body. But when a needle hits the right spot, the energy released is said to activate the body\u2019s latent powers of self-healing. In Mammalian\u2019s case, the primary pressure point for all who attend the company\u2019s performances is tended to by having them stand and pledge not to criticize other people\u2019s lives without interpreting them. This surely applies to more than just sexual experiences and sexuality; perhaps it\u2019s just the right form of treatment for all situations that cause social divisions and interpersonal conflict.<\/p>\n

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Translated by Ilmari Saarinen<\/small><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Photo: Ryohei Tomita \u201cAll the Sex I\u2019ve Ever Had\u201d is a work by the Canada-based Darren O\u2019Donnell and his theate […]","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":5935,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[73],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/realtokyo.co.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5934"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/realtokyo.co.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/realtokyo.co.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/realtokyo.co.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/19"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/realtokyo.co.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5934"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"https:\/\/realtokyo.co.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5934\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6056,"href":"https:\/\/realtokyo.co.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5934\/revisions\/6056"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/realtokyo.co.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5935"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/realtokyo.co.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5934"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/realtokyo.co.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5934"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/realtokyo.co.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5934"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}